You know what's good? When someone comes through for you. Maybe for the hundredth time. Maybe you always knew they would. Maybe they always will.
But it's good to be able to believe that.
Thank you for coming through.
Thursday, December 04, 2008
Monday, November 10, 2008
My Two Cents
I've had this idea bouncing around in my brain for several years now. It's one of those ideas that resurfaces when I am faced with difficult situations. You may find that this idea is inconsequential--maybe it's something you've had down pat for years--but I at least wanted to try to put it down on paper, because for me it's the answer to a lot of questions.
I think I can pretty much sum it up in one sentence:
We should be more interested in loving people than in judging them.
Our job is to love. It's God's job to judge.
I'm not going to waste my time detailing the exceptions to this rule. Yes, I know that there are times when we should intervene in the lives of others. Yes, I know that it is important to use wise judgment in our lives. And no, I am not saying you have to support or condone behavior that goes beyond your beliefs.
But we must love the people.
That is our job.
If I could actually figure out how to live this way, it would change a lot of things. I would spend less time focusing on the offender's mistake, and more time giving the offender a hand up. Throwing them a rope.
Because I find myself in need of a hand or a rope all too frequently.
I suppose living this way would require a lot of courage too. It is not easy to be disappointed by others without changing your view of them. But what would it be like to really invest in that idea? To do the job right?
I am more interested in loving others than I am in judging them.
Just a thought.
I think I can pretty much sum it up in one sentence:
We should be more interested in loving people than in judging them.
Our job is to love. It's God's job to judge.
I'm not going to waste my time detailing the exceptions to this rule. Yes, I know that there are times when we should intervene in the lives of others. Yes, I know that it is important to use wise judgment in our lives. And no, I am not saying you have to support or condone behavior that goes beyond your beliefs.
But we must love the people.
That is our job.
If I could actually figure out how to live this way, it would change a lot of things. I would spend less time focusing on the offender's mistake, and more time giving the offender a hand up. Throwing them a rope.
Because I find myself in need of a hand or a rope all too frequently.
I suppose living this way would require a lot of courage too. It is not easy to be disappointed by others without changing your view of them. But what would it be like to really invest in that idea? To do the job right?
I am more interested in loving others than I am in judging them.
Just a thought.
Thursday, October 02, 2008
Zombies are Prohibited!
I am going to make a somewhat embarrassing confession.
I have a problem.
I have this bizarre habit of imagining what I would do in case of some kind of apocalyptic disaster.
While in the car, I examine neighborhoods, mapping routes in my head to see where I would find water, grow food, and base a defensive stronghold.
When in people's houses, I imagine what it would take to fortify the house. I find myself frowning at large windows because they would be difficult to cover successfully. I also don't like doors with big glass panels in them. If the zombies/crazies/bad guys came, it would be difficult to seal your house off quickly.
I figure out hiding places in my house, so that if unwanted characters ever came into my house, I would have several clever places to conceal myself.
I think about this more than is healthy. I would say it crosses my mind at least once a week.
I apparently need to lay off the postapocalyptic media...maybe permanently.
At least I haven't built a bomb shelter in the backyard!
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